I'm not feeling in a good mood today. I'm feeling insecure in my relationship and lonley 'cause I don't have anyone to talk to about it.(I know, what a sad person, you must be thinking). So you have to put up with me going on about it. I left my partner of quite a few years (who happened to be female) almost a year ago and got together with the bloke I am with now. I really like him, but he just wants to go out with me and on holiday, which is very nice, but not enough for me. It's much more difficult to communicate with a bloke, especially when they don't like to talk about feelings.
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phinebooty
- Monday, 19. Sep, 2005 @ 06:46:12 pm
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BlueButterfly
- Monday, 19. Sep, 2005 @ 07:11:57 pm
I'm trying. He is such a major introvert, and somtimes he expects me to know what he's thinking. But he is never deliberatley nasty to me, he does seem to care about me. I go between feeling very in love with him and being angry with him. I think the problem is he is very nice to me and acts like I am important to him, but he cannot promise that he will be faithful to me. I really don't want to share him. When I tell him how I feel he sais I make him feel clausraphobic (sp?)
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phinebooty
- Tuesday, 20. Sep, 2005 @ 11:35:47 am
the problem is that most women expect fidelity from men(which i think is reasonably, who seriously want to share), but men want the freedom to wander. so he could be faithful to you but he doesnt want to be reminded of it becaue then it makes him feel clautraphobic and caged in.. i think it's more an issue of trusting yourself and deciding what is important to you to make you feel secure and wholesime blue. dont look to someone esle for security or to slove other issues you might have. it's hard and it's a one day at a time thing. xxx
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i HOPE YOU ARE FEELING A LOT better. i can identify with what you are saying. it's harder to share of course, what if you get rejected. but when you say more, what do u mean? can you just go with the flow for the moment knowing he is there anyway?